1. Pray together daily.
2. Go to bed at the same time.
3. No leaving the room during an argument/discussion unless you're going to pray, and then you have to come back and finish the discussion.
4. Never, ever use the "D" word (divorce).
5. If an argument lasts longer than an hour, get help. Put together a list in advance of friends you can call (and give each other permission in advance to call).
6. Go over your schedule weekly, including quiet times, prayer times, "friendship" times, romantic times and get-aways.
7. Schedule a date at least once a week.
8. Schedule a get-away at least once every three months.
9. Ask other couples about inexpensive locations for get-aways.
10. Read the book The Five Love Languages and see if you know what makes your spouse feel loved.
11. Daily make a list of three things you appreciate about your spouse.  Things that qualify:  character traits, a soft heart, giving and sacrifice (to name a few) and spend a few moments every day letting your spouse know you noticed. Things that don't qualify: nice hair cut, nice shoes, thanks for not leaving your dirty underwear on the floor...you get the idea.
12. Read a marriage book together.
13. Seek out a couple whose marriage you admire and get to be best friends.

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